Love that’s grasping or craving or lusting after something else that it wants, this is shallow love. It is desire. When working with feelings and emotions that come up, just observe. Don’t take what’s coming up and make it into something else. If you just observe it will find its own equilibrium, the realization of not-two. This is deep love. It is not an experience. It may have feeling, but not a feeling about something or someone else. It is a fundamental understanding of the nature of things.