Before you start going out accusing, crediting and blaming, first clarify inward. If you don’t, you’ll mistake your own unclarified confusion: passion aggression and ignorance for what you’re seeing “out there”. When I say clarify, I don’t mean get rid of. I mean see your confusion. Find out who you are.
The awareness of confusion is still awareness, very powerful if you don’t manipulate it based on grasping a position of right and wrong or what you should and shouldn’t do. Be generous, allow yourself to be confused. When you train your mind to not believe, disbelieve, or look away from whatever arises, there is a sense of openness that is fearless, not separate from confusion. This may inspire what you have to do.