Don’t forgive, just stop blaming. How? See the way you blame and do nothing with that. Expand your awareness. Forgiveness is usually more about your getting out of feeling badly.
In this dharma talk, Sokuzan speaks on the varying qualities of apology and the nature of forgiveness.
In a Dharma talk after Sunday service, Sokuzan invites us to take a close look at our stories when we hold a grudge and what we presume when we “forgive.”
February 26, 2012